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What is Parental Alienation?

6 AUGUST 2026 | Child Arrangements & Parenting | 4 Minute Read

In this video, family lawyer Daniel Coombes explains what parental alienation is, how it differs from the normal changes in family relationships after separation, and why it is treated so seriously by the courts. He also highlights the importance of seeking early legal advice, whether you are concerned about alienation or facing allegations of alienating behaviour.

What is Parental Alienation?

In this short video, specialist family lawyer Daniel Coombes explains what parental alienation is, how it differs from the normal changes in parent-child relationships following separation, and why it is such a serious issue.

Daniel also discusses why early legal advice is so important, whether you are concerned that your child is being alienated from you or you have been accused of alienating behaviours. With the courts taking these cases extremely seriously, understanding the issues at an early stage can make a significant difference.

Daniel is a Director at Family Law in Partnership and a highly experienced family lawyer. He specialises in complex children cases, including those involving allegations of parental alienation, mental health issues and international relocation. Daniel also has considerable expertise in complex financial matters following divorce, particularly those involving high-net-worth and international assets. He is a trained mediator and collaborative lawyer.

Daniel Coombes

"I strive to help people achieve the best possible outcome, both for themselves and any children they may have, protecting their interests and using the process option that is most likely to achieve their goal. I recognise the importance of what is at stake: decisions made at the time of separation will have profound and long-lasting ramifications. I see part of my role as helping people to focus on what is important and what needs prioritising – in the short, medium and long term. Each case is different and each individual has their own particular needs. I tailor my approach to match the requirements of each individual person."

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Q&A

Answers to common questions about this topic.

What is parental alienation? +

Parental alienation describes a situation where a child develops an unjustified resistance or hostility towards one parent as a result of the psychological influence or manipulation of the other parent. It is different from the normal changes in family relationships that can sometimes occur following separation.

Is every child who refuses to see a parent being alienated? +

No. Children may become reluctant to spend time with a parent for many reasons, particularly during or after a family breakdown. It is important to understand the underlying reasons before assuming parental alienation is taking place.

Is court always necessary where parental alienation is alleged? +

Not always. Where appropriate, non-court dispute resolution (NCDR), such as mediation, child-inclusive mediation or solicitor-led negotiations, can help parents address concerns at an early stage and refocus on their child’s needs. However, if agreement cannot be reached or there are significant welfare concerns, the court may need to intervene to protect the child’s relationship with both parents.

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Daniel is a family lawyer experienced in financial and complex children cases, including international and high-net-worth matters. He is a trained mediator and collaborative lawyer.

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