Dominic Raeside
Head of Mediation
Dominic is Head of Mediation at Family Law in Partnership. His practice is focused on helping couples to reach a consensus about their future as it relates to their children, finances and housing.
Dominic is one of the five principals who founded Family Law in Partnership in 1995. As Head of Mediation, Dominic holds the strong belief that whilst separation and divorce is often a difficult and painful transition, it does not have to destroy a family.
Expertise →
Dominic’s practice is focused on helping couples reach a consensus about their future as it relates to their children, finances and housing. Dominic mediates both domestic and cross border family disputes including international child abduction, access and custody cases.
Having worked for many years in the Courts advising the judiciary in contested children’s matters and previously having worked in the field of adult psychiatry, Dominic has a range of skills, knowledge and experience which he uses to help his clients to reach agreement. His work has earned Dominic a reputation as one of the most experienced and respected mediators in the country – many of his mediation clients are referred to him by the top family lawyers in the country. For a number of years Dominic held the prestigious role of the Family Mediator member of the Family Justice Council.
Dominic is ranked in the Hall of Fame for family mediation by the leading legal directory, Legal 500 UK. The 2024 edition notes that: “Dominic is able to win the ears (and respect) of both parties, no matter how much water under the bridge. He unlocks tricky areas which have built up over the years and helps to diminish tension between the parties so that they can have a healthy dialogue beyond”.
Earlier editions note that Dominic is “an outstanding mediator”: “Dominic Raeside is one of the “go-to” mediators in London, if not in England and Wales, for high-conflict mediation clients. He has a huge armoury of mediation skills which can deal with the most complex relationship breakdowns and children issues”; “calm and constructive….he is immensely experienced”; and “at the top of his game; he manages to put people at ease, and has a way of unblocking even the most intractable disputes.“
Chambers HNW has also ranked Dominic as a top tier mediator for several years with quotes including: “Exceptional mediator” Dominic Raeside is very sought after for family mediations. A source says he has “real gravitas on children matters”; “The doyen of mediators”; “He has a standout reputation as a mediator in high conflict cases”; and “Dominic has been a go-to mediator for many years. I love working with him; he’s very considered and approachable. He has a real soft touch in the most complex and tricky cases.”
In addition to his work as a Mediator, Dominic is a UKCP registered family and systemic psychotherapist and sees clients in conjunction with his lawyer colleagues where he offers consultation on the child related, emotional and psychological aspects of divorce and separation.
As well as being the Chief Assessor for the Family Mediation Council, Dominic is also involved in training mediators both in the UK and internationally. He was the mediator member of the Pensions Advisory Group and a member of the Family Mediation Task Force which made recommendations to improve the family mediation services in England and Wales. He was a member of the Ministry of Justice’s Voice of the Child Advisory Group and is also a member of the MiKK pool of qualified cross border family mediators and the Cross Border Family Mediators Network.
Dominic is a qualified Parenting Coordinator.
Representative Matters →
Dominic’s mediation cases include:
- Mediation involving a couple who were in their mid-sixties and had been married for over 15 years (second marriage for both). The couple had substantial assets. Over the period of six months and five mediation meetings the couple separated, initiated divorce proceedings and, in mediation, successfully negotiated all of their financial arrangements which were recorded into a binding financial consent order without the need for any formal court proceedings.
- Mediation involving a dispute over schooling. The parents had been separated for a number of years and their financial and children arrangements had already been settled. A mediation meeting was held with the parents where their views and preferences were discussed. It was agreed that the son’s views should be taken into account. A child inclusive mediation meeting was held with their son who was very clear about his schooling preference. The results of this meeting were communicated to the parents who agreed to abide by the son’s wishes and agreed how this decision would be fed back to their son to avoid any feelings of guilt on his part.
- Mediation concerning the relocation of a mother with her three young children to Australia following the mother’s application for leave to remove. There had been a violent incident in the past and, following an appropriate safeguarding assessment, the mother was willing to meet the father in the safe environment afforded by mediation. After a number of meetings the father agreed to the mother moving to Australia and arrangements were agreed for scheduled visits and regular contact via skype with the children. The mother withdrew her application for leave to remove.
- Mediation between a lesbian couple and a gay male friend who had fathered a child for the couple. The couple had since separated with the mother starting a relationship with another woman. The father had a contact order but the child was refusing to visit. The father made an application for contact with the child. The matter was referred to mediation by the Court. The outcome of mediation was that the father agreed to withdraw the Court proceedings and the mothers agreed to encourage the child to begin to see the father again. Matters were reviewed in mediation which led to the child agreeing to see her father again.
Focus Areas
- Mediation (all issues)
- Sole and Co-Mediation
- Child Inclusive Mediation
- MIAMs
- Hybrid Mediation
- Qualified Mediator
- Qualified Counsellor
- Parenting Coordinator
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Dominic’s Clients Say…
“You deftly and professionally led us all through very sensitive issues, expertly enabling us to reach a satisfactory result. This would never have been possible without your expertise and experience. We still don’t know how you achieved this but your skill and patience were clearly evident from the very start”
Former client
“You added an orderly calm and dignity to proceedings and I feel lucky that we found you”
Former client
“The service was exceptional and expedited a settlement so mission accomplished!”
Former client
“Life is greatly improved for us all and the children are so much more settled, I shall always be grateful for your help”
Former client
“At every turn of the discussions we had, Dominic handled tricky situations with care, skill, grace and aplomb and succeeded in allowing us to find a solution that necessarily involved compromises for both me and my former partner but which has allowed us to move forwards and hopefully build a new friendship with each other”
Former client
“A sincere thank you for your wonderfully calm, even-handed, reassuring and wise help during our recent mediation”
Former client
“Thank you for your time, patience, support and commitment to our mediation process. I think you are quite amazing – the support and calmness you were able to offer kept me in the process – and I am beyond grateful.”
Former Client
“Dominic’s working style and follow up is absolutely brilliant”
Former Client
“Dominic Raeside is “the doyen of mediators”
Chambers HNW 2021
“Dominic lets the clients lead, he thinks outside of the box. He’ll look at what is best for the family and is truly of the opinion that if you let the clients lead and give them the power, it will work.”
Chambers HNW 2021
“He is an exceptional mediator”
Chambers HNW 2021
“Dominic Raeside is the go-to mediator for children and financial matters”
Legal 500 UK 2022
“I found Dominic to be even-handed to both parents, whilst keeping our son at the centre of the process. He had the right mix of seriousness and wry humour to keep the mediation on an even keel, and I valued his depth of understanding of children’s needs”
Former Client
Dominic Raeside who is a “reassuring safe pair of hands for children mediation”
Legal 500 UK 2023
“I have been impressed with your approach, sympathetic hearing to both parties and strict attention to neutrality”
Former Client

22nd January 2021
Family Mediation: All you Need to Know: A Podcast
In this episode of the FLiP podcast we discuss the family mediation process, answering commonly asked questions including…
10th December 2019
Tatler’s new HNW Guide features FLiP’s Bradley Williams and Dominic Raeside
Bradley Williams and Dominic Raeside have been listed in the new Tatler High Net Worth guide 2020.

19th November 2018
Top Ten Tips For Your First Mediation Meeting
Dominic Raeside
Dominic Raeside outlines his top ten tips for preparing for your first mediation meeting.
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