When parents separate, they are faced with a myriad of terms that are suddenly attached to the time they spend with their children. It remains the first position of the Courts in England and Wales that it should not get involved unless required and for the majority of parents who are able to agree arrangements for their children these terms may seem irrelevant. However, for those who need the involvement of the courts, these labels can become very important. So what are they?
Parental Responsibility (“PR”):- this means all the rights, duties, powers, responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and his property. Mothers automatically have PR when they give birth to a child. If the Father is married to the Mother when the child is born then he will automatically have PR as well. If the parents are not married but the child was born after 1st December 2002 and the parents have registered the Father properly on the birth certificate, then the Father will automatically have PR. Second parents in civil partnerships, step parents or other relatives, and unmarried fathers of children born before 1st December 2002 or who are not named on the birth certificate can acquire PR by agreement or through the courts.
Residence order:- means an order deciding the person with whom a child is to make their main home.
Contact order:- This is an order by which sets out in detail the frequency with which a child is to see the parent with whom they do not make their main home. This can include overnight staying contact or visiting contact. A contact order can also be made in favour of someone not the parent of the child, for example a grandparent.
Shared residence order:- this order means that the child has two homes one with each parent. It has become more popular in the courts over recent years to make this order as the courts have sought to show children that both parents are of equal importance. It does not mean in practice that the child must live 50:50 with each parent, but only that they will spend time with each parent. The effect is also that there is no detailed contact arrangements set out in the order, as, since the child is “living” with both parents, it is up to the parents to agree the contact arrangements between themselves.
Joint residence order:- The difference between this order and an order for shared residence is that this order is reserved for cases where the residence order is made in favour of two people who reside together e.g. a father and stepmother.
There are orders that can be made in addition to these in respect of schooling or medical treatment or any other specific issue on which the parents cannot agree. What the court will always have foremost in its mind however, is what is in the best interests of the particular child, not the wishes or rights of the parents.
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